Sunday, October 30, 2011

Is there any way to say sorry?

This week, as some of you know, my friend and I had one of those bumps in the road. It's been a difficult week for both of us, and things just happened. I really feel bad for anything that I might have said or done to make her think that I don't care. But, she is my best friend and I miss talking to her. I want us to be friends again, and I'm so sorry. I hope these quotes help her understand how sorry I am. So, this is for you Halle. I hope you realize how deeply sorry I am.

"When you realize you have made a mistake, make amends immediately. It's easier to eat a crow while it is still warm." -Dan Heist

"The words are all gone, the time's been too long but it's not too late to say I'm sorry to a friend." -Mccain Edwin

"I'm sorry. I wish I could think of something more to say, something magical, that would make up for how I treated you, but all I can say is, I wish I had been a better friend, and I want to try to be, now." -Unknown

"Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future." -Paul Boese

"Three words, eight letters, so difficult to say. They're stick inside me, they try and stay away. But this is too important to let them have their way. I need to do it now, I must do it today. I am sorry." -Unknown

"Sorry for hurting you. What I did was foolish and impulsive. If I could take it all back, I'd do so this instant. I truly did not mean to hurt you in any way. Please forgive me. I'm so sorry." -Unknown

"I want to apologize for not being caring enough and for hurting your feelings. I'm sorry." -Unknown

"It seems the one who means the most to us, are always the ones we hurt the most." -Unknown

"Some time I should learn to stop talking when I know it will hurt you. I'm sorry." -Alissa

"I feel ashamed of what I did. I have no excuses. I did what I did. I take full responsibility for myself and my actions. I wouldn't pawn this off on anybody. I'm sorry it happened. And I hurt people." -Unknown

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Forgivness begins with me!

I know there are many times that I get angry at people and I hate being the one that has to apologize. But I'm finally starting to grasp that even if they're the ones who are wrong, we still need to forgive them. I know forgiving people doesn't come easy, especially when they are your friend and they really hurt you. I am learning to be quicker to forgive, but I'm still human and need help...so here are some quotes that I hope will help you, as well as myself.

~ "Forgiveness is a funny thing. It warms up the heart and cools the sting." -William A. Ward

~ "They who forgive most shall be most forgiven." -William Blake

~ "We forgive freely or we do not really forgive at all." -Lewis B. Smedes

~ "To err is human, to forgive is divine." -Alexander Pope

~ "I have learned that sometimes 'sorry' is not enough. Sometimes you actually have to change. -Claire London

~ "It takes a strong person to say 'sorry,' and an even stronger person to forgive." -Unknown

~ "Forgiveness is a sign that the person who has wronged you means more to you than the wrong they have dealt." -Ben Greenhalgh

~ "It takes a second to make a mistake, but a lifetime to try and forget it was your fault." -Jenn

~ "I'm not perfect, I make mistakes, I hurt people, but when I say I'm sorry, I mean it." -Unknown

~ "I don't forgive people because I am weak, I forgive them because I'm strong enough to know that people make mistakes." -Unknown

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

10 Quotes I can't live without!

Here are 10 quotes I always want to remember. Some of them you have probably heard, but that's ok...because quotes are just amazing that you can hear them more than once. Some of these I like from experinces, while others I just LOVE! :) If you want I would love to hear your top 10 quotes too. So...that means....COMMENT! :) Now...what you've been waiting for....THE QUOTES!!!
10) "Friendship is like peeing in your pants. Everybody can see it, but only you can feel its true warmth." -Unknown
9) "I’m not the girl who runs up to you when I see you, and I’m not the girl who jumps at every moment to talk to you. I am the girl who keeps it all inside and regrets it later." -Unknown 
8) "Tell her how you admire her. When she's upset, hold her tight. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. Play with her hair. Pick her up, tickle her and wrestle with her. Just talk to her. Tell her jokes. Bring her flowers just because. Hold her hand and run. Just hold her hand. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Tell her she looks beautiful. Look into her eyes and smile. Kiss her on the forehead. Kiss her in the rain. If you want to be with her...tell her." -Unknown
7) "Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of happiness. Laugh when you can. Apologize when you should. And let go of what you can't change. Love deeply and forgive quickly. Take chances. Give everything and have not regrets. Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad. Smile when you make mistakes. People change and things go wrong but always remember...LIFE GOES ON!" -Unknown
6) "When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place." -Unknown 
5) "I'm not a perfect girl. My hair doesn't always stay in place and I spill things a lot. I'm pretty clumsy and sometimes I have a broken heart. My friends and I sometimes fight and maybe some days nothing goes right. But when I think about it and take a step back I remember how amazing life truly is and that maybe. Just maybe. I like being imperfect..." -Unknown
4) "Find a guy who calls you BEAUTIFUL instead of HOT. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Wait for the boy who KISSES your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the WORLD when you are in your sweats. Who holds your HAND in front of his friends. Who thinks you're just as PRETTY without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he CARES, and LOVES being with you and how he's the LUCKIEST guy in the world to have you. The one who turns to his friends and says, 'THAT'S HER.'" -Unknown
3) "In a world where you can be anything...BE YOURSELF!" -Unknown
2) "Dancing is like dreaming with your feet!" -Constanze 
1) "Be your own kind of beautiful." -Unknown 

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Love that can't be?

Here's just a little poem I found that I like.
"Did you ever fall for someone you know you shouldn't?
Try hard to fight your feelings, but you just couldn't?
You fall deeper with each passing day,
But try to hide it in every possible way.
He's only a friend, and nothing else--
That's the lie you keeping telling yourself.
You keep on saying he's just a bud,
But deep inside, you're falling in love.
You get so giddy when you meet his eyes,
But keep reminding yourself it isn't right.
A simple glance turns into a stare,
But you pretned that you don't care.
It's "not right" for you two to be. 
Is that why you hide it so no one can see?
But how long will you pretend?
Keep lying that he's just a friend?
Perhaps your feelings you can never show.
Perhaps it's "wrong" for him to know.
Your friendship can't be risked over this, 
So being his girl is an impossible wish..." -Momei Qu