Sunday, October 30, 2011

Is there any way to say sorry?

This week, as some of you know, my friend and I had one of those bumps in the road. It's been a difficult week for both of us, and things just happened. I really feel bad for anything that I might have said or done to make her think that I don't care. But, she is my best friend and I miss talking to her. I want us to be friends again, and I'm so sorry. I hope these quotes help her understand how sorry I am. So, this is for you Halle. I hope you realize how deeply sorry I am.

"When you realize you have made a mistake, make amends immediately. It's easier to eat a crow while it is still warm." -Dan Heist

"The words are all gone, the time's been too long but it's not too late to say I'm sorry to a friend." -Mccain Edwin

"I'm sorry. I wish I could think of something more to say, something magical, that would make up for how I treated you, but all I can say is, I wish I had been a better friend, and I want to try to be, now." -Unknown

"Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future." -Paul Boese

"Three words, eight letters, so difficult to say. They're stick inside me, they try and stay away. But this is too important to let them have their way. I need to do it now, I must do it today. I am sorry." -Unknown

"Sorry for hurting you. What I did was foolish and impulsive. If I could take it all back, I'd do so this instant. I truly did not mean to hurt you in any way. Please forgive me. I'm so sorry." -Unknown

"I want to apologize for not being caring enough and for hurting your feelings. I'm sorry." -Unknown

"It seems the one who means the most to us, are always the ones we hurt the most." -Unknown

"Some time I should learn to stop talking when I know it will hurt you. I'm sorry." -Alissa

"I feel ashamed of what I did. I have no excuses. I did what I did. I take full responsibility for myself and my actions. I wouldn't pawn this off on anybody. I'm sorry it happened. And I hurt people." -Unknown

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Forgivness begins with me!

I know there are many times that I get angry at people and I hate being the one that has to apologize. But I'm finally starting to grasp that even if they're the ones who are wrong, we still need to forgive them. I know forgiving people doesn't come easy, especially when they are your friend and they really hurt you. I am learning to be quicker to forgive, but I'm still human and need help...so here are some quotes that I hope will help you, as well as myself.

~ "Forgiveness is a funny thing. It warms up the heart and cools the sting." -William A. Ward

~ "They who forgive most shall be most forgiven." -William Blake

~ "We forgive freely or we do not really forgive at all." -Lewis B. Smedes

~ "To err is human, to forgive is divine." -Alexander Pope

~ "I have learned that sometimes 'sorry' is not enough. Sometimes you actually have to change. -Claire London

~ "It takes a strong person to say 'sorry,' and an even stronger person to forgive." -Unknown

~ "Forgiveness is a sign that the person who has wronged you means more to you than the wrong they have dealt." -Ben Greenhalgh

~ "It takes a second to make a mistake, but a lifetime to try and forget it was your fault." -Jenn

~ "I'm not perfect, I make mistakes, I hurt people, but when I say I'm sorry, I mean it." -Unknown

~ "I don't forgive people because I am weak, I forgive them because I'm strong enough to know that people make mistakes." -Unknown

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

10 Quotes I can't live without!

Here are 10 quotes I always want to remember. Some of them you have probably heard, but that's ok...because quotes are just amazing that you can hear them more than once. Some of these I like from experinces, while others I just LOVE! :) If you want I would love to hear your top 10 quotes too. So...that means....COMMENT! :) Now...what you've been waiting for....THE QUOTES!!!
10) "Friendship is like peeing in your pants. Everybody can see it, but only you can feel its true warmth." -Unknown
9) "I’m not the girl who runs up to you when I see you, and I’m not the girl who jumps at every moment to talk to you. I am the girl who keeps it all inside and regrets it later." -Unknown 
8) "Tell her how you admire her. When she's upset, hold her tight. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. Play with her hair. Pick her up, tickle her and wrestle with her. Just talk to her. Tell her jokes. Bring her flowers just because. Hold her hand and run. Just hold her hand. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Tell her she looks beautiful. Look into her eyes and smile. Kiss her on the forehead. Kiss her in the rain. If you want to be with her...tell her." -Unknown
7) "Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of happiness. Laugh when you can. Apologize when you should. And let go of what you can't change. Love deeply and forgive quickly. Take chances. Give everything and have not regrets. Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad. Smile when you make mistakes. People change and things go wrong but always remember...LIFE GOES ON!" -Unknown
6) "When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place." -Unknown 
5) "I'm not a perfect girl. My hair doesn't always stay in place and I spill things a lot. I'm pretty clumsy and sometimes I have a broken heart. My friends and I sometimes fight and maybe some days nothing goes right. But when I think about it and take a step back I remember how amazing life truly is and that maybe. Just maybe. I like being imperfect..." -Unknown
4) "Find a guy who calls you BEAUTIFUL instead of HOT. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Wait for the boy who KISSES your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the WORLD when you are in your sweats. Who holds your HAND in front of his friends. Who thinks you're just as PRETTY without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he CARES, and LOVES being with you and how he's the LUCKIEST guy in the world to have you. The one who turns to his friends and says, 'THAT'S HER.'" -Unknown
3) "In a world where you can be anything...BE YOURSELF!" -Unknown
2) "Dancing is like dreaming with your feet!" -Constanze 
1) "Be your own kind of beautiful." -Unknown 

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Love that can't be?

Here's just a little poem I found that I like.
"Did you ever fall for someone you know you shouldn't?
Try hard to fight your feelings, but you just couldn't?
You fall deeper with each passing day,
But try to hide it in every possible way.
He's only a friend, and nothing else--
That's the lie you keeping telling yourself.
You keep on saying he's just a bud,
But deep inside, you're falling in love.
You get so giddy when you meet his eyes,
But keep reminding yourself it isn't right.
A simple glance turns into a stare,
But you pretned that you don't care.
It's "not right" for you two to be. 
Is that why you hide it so no one can see?
But how long will you pretend?
Keep lying that he's just a friend?
Perhaps your feelings you can never show.
Perhaps it's "wrong" for him to know.
Your friendship can't be risked over this, 
So being his girl is an impossible wish..." -Momei Qu

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Just be yourself.

I have heard SO many quotes about being yourself. Some of you may not know this, but I used to pretend to be something I wasn't. I had a group of friends who I thought wouldn't like me if I wasn't like them...so I changed. I started doing things, (not bad things) that I wouldn't have done. I was becoming something totally opposite from myself. I hated when my family would tell how I changed or how even some of my real friends told me I was different. It hurt, because I knew it was true. Finally one day, a friend of mine said, "You know, I never hang out with you anymore because you are so different." I had enough, and when I went home that day I found this quote: "Be your own kind of beautiful." I broke down into tears, and knew things HAD to change. I started becoming the person I really was and I felt good about myself. I will say this, there are still things that I am working on because of what I did. It really leaves a mark on you. But I'm getting there and things are getting better. I know it's hard...I mean I've been through all that, but I know that you have the power in you to just be yourself. :) Good luck on that...here's some quotes for ya! Enjoy!
1.) "Be your own kind of beautiful."
2.) "In a world where you can be anything...BE YOURSELF!"
3.) "It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are." -E.E. Cummings
4.) "Be who you really are. Do not change for anyone, and always, always dream big enough to achieve." -Unknown
5.) "It is better to be hated for what you are, then to be loved for something you are not." -Unknown
6.) "You were born an original. Don't die a copy."
7.) "If God had wanted me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise."
8.) "Be yourself. Because everybody else is taken."
9.) "They laugh at me because I am different but I laugh at them because they are all the same."
10.) "There is just one life for each of us: our own" -Euripides

Monday, September 19, 2011

I love how friends are always there!

At the beginning of the month I did a post about friends. Well, seeing that my friends are such great friends, I decided to do another one. There are lots of friends I don't see anymore and I really miss, so to those friends...this post is for you!
1. "People never know how special someone is until they leave, but maybe sometimes its important to leave, so they are given that chance to see how special that someone really is!" -Unknown
2. "Don't ever be afraid to come to me and cry. Don't ever hesitate to look me in the eye. Don't ever be afraid to tell me how you feel. Remember your my girl and we gotta keep it real." -Ashley Upchurch
3. "Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend." -Albert Camus
4. "When it hurts to look back and your scared to look ahead you can look beside you and your best friend will be there." -Unknown
5. "It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, a hour to like someone, and a day to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone." -Unknown
6. "A friend can tell you things you don't want to tell yourself." -Frances Ward Weller
7. "A friend is someone who listens when you speak, understands when you cry and guides you on your way." -Unknown 
8. "True friends are never forgotten, they live within our hearts and souls.... forever, and always, dancing on our stage of memories."  -Shawn
9. "The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?" -Henry David Thoreau
10. "Treat your friends as you do your pictures, and place them in their best light." -Jennie Jerome Churchill

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Life is full of mistakes

We've all had that time when we wish we hadn't said or done something. That's exactly what I'm going through now. I don't want to make a big deal out of it, but the only thing I can say is "I'm sorry. I'm sorry I hurt you and you disagree with me, but I didn't mean for you to get upset with me. I just wanted you to be aware of it and realize what's really going on. I'm sorry you think I'm being pushy and telling you what to do, I'm just trying to help you. I really am sorry. I feel awful about it all and I wish I just kept my thoughts to myself, but it's too late for that. Now all I can do is apologize. I'm sorry." So...here are some quotes I really wanted to share. 


"If you’re going to do something tonight that you’ll be sorry for tomorrow morning, sleep late." -Unknown


"When you realize you've made a mistake, make amends immediately.  It's easier to eat crow while it's still warm." -Dan Heist


"Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge." -Isaac Friedmann


"An apology is a good way to have the last word." -Unknown


"An apology is the superglue of life.  It can repair just about anything." -Lynn Johnston

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Never Give Up!

"Magic is believing in yourself, if you can do that, you can make anything happen." -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
"A limit on what you will do, puts a limit on what you can do." -Anonymous
"Better a Has-been than a Never-was. But better a Never-was than a Never-tried-to-be." -Anonymous
"No one will ever see me quit, because I simply won't. If I start something, I will finish it and do it well." -Steve Belmarsh 
"Things will happen in your life that you can't stop, but that's no reason to shut out the world. There's a purpose for the good and for the bad." -Crazy Pete
"Never give up. Almost nothing works the first time it's attempted. Just because what you're doing does not seem to be working, doesn't mean it won't work. It just means that it might not work the way you're doing it. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it, and you wouldn't have an opportunity." -Bob Parsons 
"You must do things you think you cannot do."-Eleanor Roosevelt
"I never succeed if I've never failed." -Alissa
"Don't give up. There are too many nay-sayers out there who will try to discourage you. Don't listen to them. The only one who can make you give up is yourself." -Sidney Sheldon
"When the world says, “Give up,” Hope whispers, “Try it one more time." -Unknown
"If you're stuck, don't give up. Try something new." -Dragon Tales
"I'm not giving up acting, I'm definitely not going to stop." -Shane West

"I learned from failing, to keep trying. From trying I succeed. None would have happened if I didn't fail first." -Alissa 
"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place." -Unknown