Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Loving somebody who doesn't love you back... :'(

Some of these quotes make me cry because they are so sad! I know this is a really long post...but bear with me and read them...they are sad...but touching.

"What do you do when the only one that can make you stop crying, is the person who made you cry?"

"I’m not the girl who runs up to you when I see you, and I’m not the girl who jumps at every moment to talk to you. I am the girl who keeps it all inside and regrets it later." -Unknown

"You're the one who broke my heart, you're the reason my world fell apart, you're the one who made me cry, yet I'm still in love with you and I don't know why." -Anonymous

"You asked me what was wrong, I smiled and said nothing, when you turned around and a tear came down and I whispered to myself... 'everything is.'" -Unknown

"The way you look at her...that's how I want you to look at me." -Alissa 

"One of the hardest things in life is watching the person you love, love someone else." -Unknown

"The worst thing a guy can do is make a girl fall for him, when he has no intention of catching her." -Unknown

"Torn between two. Who would you choose? The one that you love...or the one that loves you?" -Unknown

"I'm trying really hard not to cry over you because every tear is just one more reminder that I don't know how to let you go" -Unknown

"The worst feeling you'll ever feel is sitting next to the person who means the world to you knowing that you mean nothing to them." -Unknown

The last two things aren't necessarily quotes...but I found them one night and they are so cute, but so sad. :(10th grade

As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. My date is sick" she said; he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as "best friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn't thinking of me like that, and I know it. Then she said "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
 Graduation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "You’re my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said "you came!". She said "thanks" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.


Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! 'I wish I did too...' I thought to myself, and I cried.

Okay. Here is the last one!(BTW...make sure you are watching what number of day it is)
I guess we are the left-overs in this world.

I think so...all of my friends have boyfriends, and we are the only the 2 people left in this world without any special person in our lives.

Yup, I don't know what to do.

I know! We'll play a game.

What game?

I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days
and you will be my boyfriend.

That's a great plan, in fact, I don't have anything to do
much for the following few weeks.

DAY 1:
They watch their first movie
and they both are touched by the romantic film.

DAY 4:
They went go to the beach and have a picnic. Derick and Lily have their quality time together.

DAY 12:
Derick invited Lily to a circus and they ride through a Horror House.
Lily was scared and she thought she touched Derick's hand but she actually touched someone else's hand they both laughed.

DAY 15:

They saw a fortune teller down the road, and they asked for their future advice.
The fortune teller said:
"My darlings, please don't waste the time of your life, spend the rest of your time together, happily." Then tears flowed out from the teller's eyes.

DAY 20:
Lily invited Derick to go to the hill
and they saw a meteor; Lily mumbled something.

DAY 28:
They sat on the bus, and because of a bumpy road Lily gave her first kiss to Derick by accident.

DAY 29:
11:37 pm:
Lily and Derick sat in the park where they first decided to play this game.

I'm tired Lily...Do you want anything to drink? I'll buy you one...I'll just go down the road.

An Apple Juice, that's all. Thank you.

Wait for me.

20 minutes later
A stranger approached Lily

Are you a friend of Derick?

Yes, why? What happened?

A reckless drunk driver ran over Derick, and he is in critical condition in the hospital.

11:57 pm:
The doctor walked out of the emergency room; he handed Lily an apple juice and a letter.

We found this in Derick's pocket.

Lily reads the letter and it says:
Lily, These past few weeks, I realized you are a really cute girl, and I am really falling for you-your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game. Before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.
I love you, Lily.

Lily crumpled up the paper and shouted:

"Derick! I don't want you to die-
I love you; remember that night when we saw a meteor and I mumbled something. I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and that we would never have to end this game. Please don't leave me Derick .. I love you! You can't do this to me!"

Then the clock strikes 12...

Derick's heart stopped pumping...

It was the 30th day.


  1. that last one is so sad... actually all of them are super sad and i used to like a guy who didnt like me back lots of these are how i felt. but im over him now.

  2. Cute quotes. My favorite ones are probably yours, Alissa and the one about sitting next to them without them knowing it's you. :( SAD! oh, and the stories are sad. Where do you find all these quotes?

  3. I find them from lots of places...some from friends, family, the internet...i just find them! :D

  4. im in a same condition i love a girl im a dance (a b boy ) and when we are only 2 of us we talk alot but when others come she frogots me when we go out with the crew she dances with anybody and only anoys me i love her but i dont know what to do o and she knows that i have a crush on her

    1. Oh I'm sorry! I hope things work out for you! Good luck! It is hard :/

  5. In my case i loved a girl so much that i even call her my true love.. she is the best girl i ever did see..but i cant express my extraordinary love for her.I learn to play guitar because of her i want harana her.harana means to sing a love song to your special girl ,i became a better person just to impress her and i always go to church to pray for her,i dont pray for me to get her or to make her fall in love with me.i pray for her safety happyness. Its so hard for me to make her my girl because of so many boys that also want her and she is a very busy girl..i use to text her but it stop for some reason,if i have choice i will not stop to text her..but i guess i dont have a choice..;(( if have to tell you the whole story mybe it will take 3 hours of reading so i will stop now...for the finallization i just want to tell her I LOVE YOU SO MUCH !KUNG MABASA MO MAN TO NAGPAPASALAMAT AKO SAYO YOU ARE MY INSPRTION!!MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA KYRA BUSCAINO

  6. I used to love a boy who didnt love me back and when i found out i didnt feel the same way but every little piece wat i had left of him i loved him and i still do xxxx

    1. Sorry :( There will be a boy that loves you back, don't worry!

  7. Yesterday, March 30, I decided to stop loving this guy, I've been secretly inlove with him for almost 2 years, i know he will never love me back because just like me, he is also secretly inlove with someone, last march 1, I decided to tell him about my feelings because I thought this will lessen the pain that I'm currently feeling and then yesterday I decided to stop loving him,because he keeps on pushing me away, and he said he'll be happy without me in his life:(

  8. I love these quotes especially #1-#6 because it relates to how I feel right now. I fell in love with a guy and he also liked me at first. But I was to insensitive, shy and wasn't able to show him my true feelings. Later on, he found another girl, broke up with her after a few months and now, he's in love with my cousin who also loves him back. The pain is too much for me because I'm still in love with someone whom I'll never have, who'll be a part of my family but will never be mine. I know that he's stopped chasing after me but the thing that hurts me most is that his feelings for me have changed and there's nothing I can do about it nor change but to accept it and move on. I was just at the wrong place at the wrong time, I had my chances I did take them but I just didn't have my luck. ;(

    1. Aw. I'm so sorry. That can be so hard. That happened to me once. This guy liked me but I didn't take the chance to be with him and I know I've missed my chance. It's hard to move on. I hope another guy will come into your life that will help you to forget the regret you have.

  9. What if you truely express your love to someone and the situation is awkward? Then what?

    1. I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me. I've never been the one that expresses my feelings first. But I've had many guys tell me that they like me and it's hard to continue going on with things just the way they were before. Just remember, you are the one making it awkward. Maybe they don't think of the situation awkward, perhaps difficult, but not awkward. Try to do what you can. I know it's not the best advice, but it's a good place to start at. I hope your situation may get better. Don't think about it too much or that will make it more awkward for you. Good luck!

  10. I have a close male friend whom I love dearly, I would like it to become more, but I know he doesn't feel that way about me. He sees me only as his best friend. But he tells me often that he loves me and always wants me to be in his life, but not as his girlfriend. I want him to be in my life, so I just accept the beautiful friendship we do have, and keep the love we have between us alive.

  11. It's hard to fall in love with someone and know that you'll always love them more than they could ever love you. I've been dating a guy for almost two years and I know how much I love him because he is the sweetest, most thoughtful, loving, and compassionate person I have ever encountered. I am so lucky to have him but I fear in my heart that he is such a good person that he'll never leave me because he feels obligated to stay, not because he loves me anymore. I wish he knew I would do anything...for him.


  12. im also in love with a guy, I actually fell in love with him back at school then when we met after school we reconnected, at first I thought he loved me, then later I noticed that he started getting too busy for me, and when I questioned it he asked for a break, at first I thought he was going to come back, but I have noticed he has no intentions to, but I still love him and im hurting, how does one get over something like this.To make this worse, I sent him a message and then he replied with "who's this" its like he is spiting me but I don't know for what, I so wish I didn't even try to contact him again, he is not worth it, why do we always fall for guys that don't love us?why why? Hurting....

    1. I'm so sorry! That's hard! The hardest thing in situations like this is learning how to pick ourselves up afterwards. I know it may not seem like it right now, but things will get better and there is a guy who is searching for a girl exactly like you. Your prince will come to you :) Hope things get better!

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  17. Loving someone dat doesn't love u bk is the worst feelings ever! Am in it and Itz really eating me up! Jst can't figure out hw to get out of it! I nid to really get out of it! Itz killing me gradually!

  18. I dated a girl for about 4 months, the relationship crashed as a result of a little misconception. She has dated my friend and it is very difficult for me to let go of her because I love her so dealy, I have been trying several times to delete her feelings out of my heart but I found it absolutely difficult. I talk to her sometimes ago but I discovered she doesn't trust my emotion, she doubt me I just don't know why. I don't love any other girl ever since we broke up

    1. I understand that completely. I dated a guy for over a year and then we broke up and I watch him become interested in other girls, some of which were my friends and it crushed me. It took a while for me to finally move on but now that I have, I now have the best guy in my life and I wouldn't have had him if I didn't let go of my ex. It's hard. I know. It took me forever to fall in love again but what's meant to be will happen. Good luck :)

  19. i love a man who is in love with aother woman... He once was my man i ve been with him for 5yrs but he left mi without any reason n when i try to contact him he tells me he is with his gal... it sucks trust mi and am really tryng to forget him but i cant... i love him to death

  20. i woke up today yet again having to console a girl i love to not be sad over a guy that just broke her heart. im older, smarter, funnier, and countless other things better than all these guys that treat her wrong. every day i love her, i cry because she doesnt nor wont allow herself to give me a chance. i tried to kill myself once because of her and yet i cry because if i died, id never see her again. but as i live, i still cry because she doesnt see me in that way. i been friendzoned and yet my pain never ends. i love her to much to ever walk away from her, but am sad to never be loved by her also. i wish i knew what to do, but am so lost that i have fallen apart by not having her.
    i will always love you my kitten dice.

  21. some times i think i just have to let everything go but the other side of me keep on thinking about her, what must i do

    1. I've been there. I was with a guy for a really long time and I loved him so much. We broke up and I still had feelings for him for the longest time. We even started dating again but it wasn't working out...but I still loved him and even though I was starting to date other guys, I kept having feelings for him and I thought I would never get over him. Then I met my current boyfriend and things changed. I still love my ex dearly and we are still friends, but since I found my current boyfriend...the love I have for my ex changed. It's not the kind of love where I see myself with him for the rest of my life, but I still care for him deeply. My boyfriend right now, I love him more than I ever thought I could. I honestly didn't think I would love somebody as much as I loved my ex, but now I fact I love my boyfriend even more than I loved my ex and I can see myself with him...whereas I can't see that with my ex. It took a lot of time, but somebody came along and completely changed my life. I honestly believe that will happy to you. And even though I'm with somebody now, I still care about my ex and I think about our past and I cherish it...but it was the past and I shouldn't dwell on it because I now have a boyfriend who loves so much and is willing to make it work, unlike my ex. I hope this helped some. Good luck on finding her :)

  22. I'm in love with a girl and I've told her my feelings for her. I'm a strong man, but I can't handle it.. We've done some stuff together but she just doesn't like me like that... And now she won't text me back... :'(
    -- These quotes and stories made me so sad.. And now all I can do is think about her :(

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